As the Christchurch victims are being mourned, we can slowly start to ponder and think and reflect: what is our role as a community of people not directly involved, not being threatened or persecuted? Is there one?
My parents taught my sister and me always to make sure whether we can help, when confronted with an incident where somebody needs help. And if we can’t help, make sure we are not bystanders, ever.
Yesterday I met with a friend who was attending a conference in Berlin. Over coffee I mentioned to her my concerns, and I mentioned to her my prayer for clarity and support. This friend is a president of a large university and a truly clever woman. She said, that the moment we push back the responsibility for the crime out of our own life into the lives of others, we deliberately decide to be a bystander. And our lives seem safe again.
This insight resonated immediately with the work I had done in prayer for the current situation. In order to be more than a bystander, in order to be an ally at all times, I went home and my thoughts went deeper into a real answer. I have no better books for this kind of spiritual quest than the Bible and my favorite Bible commentary Science and Health by Mary Baker Eddy. These books have never ever let me down. The Bible being the #1 book about humanity’s story with God tells us where we are from and where are going, it informs us with two allegorical accounts about two different views of what man is and how mankind is struggling to understand which one to follow. The first account of creation presents man as a spiritual idea, as being an idea of an infinite Mind, being „the image and likeness of God“ – the second account (written centuries earlier) presents a myth about a dustman Adam and a dustwoman Eve, created by a different God now called Yahweh. Already in the second generation murder is the order of the day. Cain justifies the homicide of his brother Abel with his own envy and with Abel’s striking difference, accusing his brother with his own crime. Abel is different, true, and he lives a different form of individuality. Cain distances himself from Abel’s otherness and throws into Yahweh’s face the question: „Shall I be my brother’s keeper“?
The Bible is filled with stories where individuals are persecuted or killed for being different. Joseph wearing his multi-colored coat, Jacob’s son, having dreams which later turn out to be prophetic announcements, is sold by his own brothers because of envy and hate – charging Josef for wearing something different and for being different. Other prophets, who by definition are solitary individuals who see more and do more than others, have been persecuted because they were independent, because they didn’t lie or exchange pleasantries with humanity. Christ Jesus, the ultimate symbol of innocence and purity, was persecuted, convicted, and killed in a show trial, in which „reasonable“, terribly twisted arguments were voiced, convincing people at that moment of the rightness of the execution.
We think we would not have let those brave individuals down, we would and will not let down our brothers and sisters in their difference. But honestly, it takes tremendous humility, unselfish love and daily alertness to develop courage and mental resilience. And to look around and see how we are doing as bystanders today. So now I feel it is time to talk about the real enemy, which is not an individual, doing something which others don’t like, the enemy is also not a misguided hateful human with a striking lack of autonomy and empathy. The real enemy is evil.
Studying and praying with the Bible and with observations I find that it is the aim of evil to become reasonable, and real, and one way of doing this is to charge the victim with the crime. I feel I am now at the point of insight where I hoped to be already years ago. It is my thesis that one reason why we all don’t realize fast enough what is going, is our unwillingness to pinpoint evil as the crime itself. Evil is not a person, place, or thing. It is a terrible lie of a life next to God, good. It is an assumption, a suggestion. The Bible knows this, Goethe’s Faust knows this, authors like Tolstoi and Kafka have written about this. And Mary Baker Eddy has systematically and courageously presented this insight into the nature of evil for the 21st century, paving the way for a deeper understanding of God as supreme Love.
She didn’t mince words when she wrote: „As of old, evil still charges the spiritual idea with error’s own nature and methods. This malicious animal instinct […] incites mortals to kill morally and physically even their fellow-mortals, and worse still, to charge the innocent with the crime.“
This observation has far reaching consequences. It arouses us to see what is really going on. It stirs us to support humanity in a much more fundamental and active way. As God’s children we are all intrinsically innocent and pure, and the trick of evil – no person, no place, no things – in blaming the innocent should be detected.
What that means is that we move from bystander to ally. We insist on the brotherhood of man. We can be allies to our brothers and sisters by closing the ranks and not letting any twisted argument about religion, refugees, politics etc. come between us and our fellow man. We can stop accusing the victims and move on to perceive more of every one’s spiritual, intact individuality which we explore and get to know better as we get to know God better.
When we are asked „Where is Abel?“ or „Where are the victims of Christchurch?“ we will not reply „Shall I be my brother’s keeper?“ but we can say: „Here I am. These are my brothers and sisters – I am their ally. I defend their eternal life and individuality. I take a stand for autonomy of thought. Because I gradually see more and more that evil is neither a person, a place, nor a thing, I will be eventually able to also include the misguided assassin in my prayer and I will do so with mercy, too. Evil itself is the crime, and I will not let my heart and mind, my feelings and my consciousness be used for sinister purposes. I express divine Love, and this Love is all I have and all I want. Only divine Love has authority, and is the final word in my consciousness, and by claiming no other consciousness I am blessing to mankind.” Without this admission flowing from the supremacy of Love, Spirit, how could the family of man ever be realized?
(This article is an edited and updated version of a piece written on the occasion of the terrorist attack on the editors of Charlie Hebdo in Paris 2015).
„The deepest hallowed intoned thought is the leader of our lives, and when it is found out people know us in reality and not until then.“ (see for reference here.)
Mary Baker Eddy dictated this observation and this text has been with my husband and me for a long time.
We know each other truly, and only then, when we perceive something of this „deepest hallowed intoned thought“. I feel that this is perceiving every one’s spiritual identity with its rich and unique mix of qualities, talents, affections.
We get to know each other when we listen and let Love unfold its own gentle plan. We get to know each other when we refrain from the attempt to steering another’s perception of us. We get to know each other when we honor the space others occupy. „Where God is we can meet, and where God is we can never part,“ writes Mary Baker Eddy in Miscellany, p. 151.
Few people, I feel, could say as meaningful things about people than Paul. From a wealth of meaningful encounters with an immense number of people from all social classes, cultures, characters, Paul handed out this piece of advice: "Encourage those who are timid. Take tender care of those who are weak. Be patient with everyone." (1. Thess. 5: 15, NLT)
So building a meaningful life is linked to getting to know each other, truly. It is moving away from our own story to getting to know people in their true light and meaning. Isn't this what the essence of life is about - Life?
Have a happy day today, filled with meaningful encounters.
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